Disclaimer: This content is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. If you or a loved one has been charged with a crime in Louisiana, consult with a licensed criminal defense attorney for guidance specific to your situation. Every case is unique, and only a qualified attorney can provide the personalized legal counsel you need.
Just got arrested? Your world just turned upside down.
The confusion, fear, and overwhelming stress that follow criminal charges can cloud your judgment when you need clarity most. Whether you are the person facing charges or a family member trying to help, the decisions you make in these critical first hours and days can dramatically impact the outcome of your case.
Here’s the truth: well-meaning family members often make mistakes that hurt their loved one’s defense. The person charged might unknowingly sabotage their case. Even seemingly innocent actions can become ammunition for prosecution.
This guide reveals the critical mistakes both defendants and family members must avoid to prevent turning a difficult situation into a legal disaster. Because when freedom is on the line, knowledge is not just power; it is protection.

This is perhaps the most dangerous mistake you can make.
Why It Matters: Every word you say can and will be used against you in court. Police officers are trained interrogators whose job is building a case against you, not helping you. Even completely innocent statements can be twisted, taken out of context, or used to support the prosecution’s narrative.
Remember: You have the absolute right to remain silent. Use it.
Family Member Tip: If your loved one calls from jail, your first words should be: “Do not say anything else. Request an attorney immediately.” Do not let your loved one explain what happened, even to you, over the phone.
Key Insight: Innocent people get convicted because they talked without legal counsel. Often people go free because they stayed silent until their attorney arrived.
Attempting to navigate Louisiana’s complex legal system without professional representation.
Why It Matters: Criminal law is intricate, with countless procedural rules, deadlines, and strategic considerations.
A qualified Louisiana criminal defense attorney knows how to:
Public defenders, while dedicated professionals, often carry overwhelming caseloads that limit the time they can dedicate to your specific case.
Family Member Tip: Do not wait. Start researching and contacting criminal defense attorneys immediately. Many offer free consultations and can begin working on the case right away.
An experienced attorney can often spot weaknesses in the prosecution’s case that untrained eyes would miss. This expertise frequently means the difference between conviction and dismissal.
Agreeing to bail conditions without completely understanding what they mean or the consequences of violation.
Bail isn’t just about getting out of jail. It comes with strict conditions. Violating any bail condition can result in:
Louisiana bail conditions might include travel restrictions, no-contact orders, drug testing, or regular check-ins with a probation officer.
Family Member Tip: Before posting bail, ensure everyone understands exactly what conditions apply. Write them down, ask questions, and create reminders to help your loved one stay compliant.

Your instinct is to help, but this advice can destroy their defense.
Police are not looking for exculpatory evidence. They are building a case for conviction. Any cooperation without legal counsel present can provide the prosecution with statements, admissions, or inconsistencies they’ll use at trial.
Support your loved one’s decision to remain silent. Remind them that staying quiet is not an admission of guilt; it is a smart legal strategy. Only speak to law enforcement through an attorney.
Having detailed conversations about the case over jail phones or in public spaces.
Here’s what many people don’t realize: jail phone calls are recorded.
Those recorded conversations become evidence the prosecution can use against your loved one. Additionally, conversations in waiting areas, hallways, or anywhere others might overhear can be problematic.
Keep all case-related discussions for private, in-person meetings or conversations with the attorney present. If you must communicate sensitive information, do it through the defense attorney or during confidential visits.
Even seemingly innocent statements like “I hope they don’t find out about…” or “Maybe we should…” can be taken out of context and used against the defendant.
Sharing updates, expressing opinions, or posting anything related to the charges on social media platforms. Social media posts are permanent, public, and prosecutable evidence.
Prosecutors routinely monitor social media accounts of defendants and their families. Posts expressing guilt, discussing evidence, or contradicting the defense strategy can seriously damage the case.
Action for family members:
If you would not want a prosecutor reading it in open court, do not post it online.
The Mistake: Urging your loved one to “just take the deal and get it over with” without understanding the long-term consequences.
Plea deals have permanent consequences that extend far beyond the immediate penalty. A criminal conviction can affect:
Support your loved one in having detailed discussions with their attorney about all aspects of any proposed plea deal. Encourage them to fully understand both immediate and long-term consequences before making decisions.

Missing court appearances can result in:
Create a calendar system to track all court dates. Set multiple reminders. Ensure your loved one has reliable transportation and backup plans. Arrive early to account for parking, security, and unexpected delays.
Do not treat bail conditions as suggestions; rather, understand they are legally binding requirements. Even minor violations can have major consequences. Courts take compliance seriously, and violations often result in revoked bail and pretrial detention.
Help create systems to ensure compliance. This might mean:
Providing Emotional Support Without Pressuring the DefendantRespect the legal process and give your loved one time to make thoughtful decisions. Your role is supporter, not legal strategist.
Criminal defendants are under enormous stress and need emotional stability, not additional pressure. Pushing them to make quick decisions can result in choices they’ll regret.
Offer comfort, reassurance, and practical support while respecting their autonomy in legal decision-making. Trust their attorney to guide the legal strategy.
Trust your loved one’s defense attorney and support their professional legal strategy. Well-meaning family members can inadvertently interfere with legal strategies or create additional stress for both the defendant and their legal team.
Stay informed about the general process, but defer to the legal team for specific strategy decisions. Ask questions during appropriate meetings, but avoid trying to direct the case’s handling.
Delaying bail arrangements due to confusion about the process or attempting to negotiate payment terms can cause your loved one to spend unnecessary time in jail. Time in jail is time away from work, family, and case preparation.
Prolonged detention creates additional stress, limits access to legal counsel, and can result in job loss or other practical consequences that complicate the defense.
Locate a reputable bail bondsman quickly. Understand that bail bonds typically require 12-13% of the total bail amount plus collateral. Have the necessary financial documents ready to expedite the process.
Underestimating the total cost of criminal defense or failing to budget for unexpected expenses can delay representation or cause it to end prior to the resolution of the case.
Criminal defense involves various costs beyond attorney fees, including:
Running out of money mid-case can force your attorney to withdraw, wasting previous investment and leaving your loved one vulnerable. Discuss fee structures and payment plans upfront. Budget for the entire process, not just initial costs. Consider liquidating assets or exploring financing options early in the process.
Assuming the legal process ends when the case closes often means missing an opportunity to expunge a conviction from your record. Your future depends on what happens after the case ends.
Criminal records are permanent and public unless formally expunged. Even dismissed cases can appear in background checks, affecting employment, housing, and other opportunities.
After case resolution, consult with your attorney about expungement possibilities. Louisiana has specific procedures and timeframes for clearing records, and acting quickly can protect long-term prospects.
Supporting a loved one through criminal charges requires a careful balance. Your instinct is to fix the situation, but the most helpful approach involves:
Every day you wait is another day the prosecution builds its case. Every conversation without legal counsel is another potential piece of evidence they can use against you.
The Ikerd Law Firm knows Louisiana criminal law inside and out. Chad Ikerd has helped countless clients navigate these exact challenges and protect their rights.
Call now: Do not let confusion and fear guide your decisions when your freedom is on the line.